Our life is our guide. We often forget this fact and try to go against it because we feel what we want is the best for us, only to complicate things more.

Sometimes our desires take so much control over our minds that we want to have something at any cost. We try to force it our way, whether it is a person or a material thing. We don't realise that the resistance we feel is life's way of changing our direction or stopping us. We can't see the obstacle that can hit us if we keep sailing in that direction, but our life can.

If something is not happening your way, you can give it a try. But, once you feel there is nothing more you can do, let your life take control. It will take you where you belong.